Raul's 40-day Remembrance mass (Feb 17th) - A Latin American Tradition
![Raul's 40-day remembrance mass with his photo in front](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Raul-mass-300x155.jpg)
![Dionisio describes a holy card gift he had planned with Raul](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Dionisio-RaulMass-lq-272x300.jpg)
![Each resident selects a card and treat provided by Raul before his death](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/Raul-HolyCards-265x300.jpg)
![The residents hold Raul's photo as a gentle remembrance](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/RaulMass-Remembering-2-281x300.jpg)
![The residents hold Raul's photo as a gentle remembrance](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/RaulMass-Remembering-3-225x300.jpg)
![The residents (who were not at school) gather around his image](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/RaulMass-Remembering-group-combo-300x239.jpg)
(Concluded from the Executive Director’s Reflections in the March 2022 newsletter==>)
This was an email that I sent to a donor just after I learned of Raul’s death.
It is my message to all of you, too:
He was rushed to the hospital on December 30th with chest pains but he died before they could operate. It was doubtful he would have survived the surgery. He was one of those angels on earth and we knew his time was limited. But it is still heart-breaking.
The children and staff at COAR in El Salvador are DEVASTATED. They will be a long time in picking up the pieces. But it is extraordinary that this is part of our story. Every child and teenager coming through is their own universe of need and pain. Some heal more than others before moving on. None of them leave the kind of impact that Raul has left.
I think it will alter us profoundly for many years to come for the children to know that one of them could have such a deep and POSITIVE and lasting influence on our whole community. He was beloved at the school, not just the residences, and at the hospital, and among the whole Catholic community in El Salvador that works to support COAR.
And he had that impact not because he was extraordinarily talented, or accomplished, but because of his character. What a great example for them, right? YOU made this possible, I’ll never be able to say it enough. Thank you for giving him to us.
RIP Raúl Antonio Sánchez
March 18, 2000 - January 9, 2022
by Mary Stevenson, COAR Executive Director
One of our most treasured residents, Raúl Antonio Sánchez, died of complications from Marfan’s syndrome on Sunday, January 9, 2022. He was 21 years old. Our mourning, that of the COAR children, staff, and everyone who knew him, is deep and profound. And yet, we are grateful for the time we had with him. It is we who are blessed, as well as bereft.
![Raúl hugs Merlin after saying grace for our benefit - 2017](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/Merlin-hugs-Raul-scaled.jpg)
![Raúl poses on the swings with his COAR family - 2018](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/swing.jpg)
![Raúl (center) and his fellow members on the COAR interno committee prepare a Valentine's Day celebration - 2020](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/valentines-day-with-hearts-2.jpg)
![Raúl (left) and housemate Ricardo (left) look forward to a slice of cake at COAR's 40th anniversary celebration - 2020](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/RicardoRaulCake.jpg)
![Raúl (second from right) and fellow COAR students at their graduation from the Fundación Renacer high school internship program - 2019](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/20181128_160102-scaled.jpg)
![Raúl learns about positioning subjects for a shot during community film school - 2021](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/Recording-Raul-e1641852725374.jpg)
![Raúl participates in a game of reverse charades with his COAR family - 2019](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/charades.jpeg)
![Raúl receives ashes on Ash Wednesday - 2021](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/ReceivingAshes-Raul-e1641852753793.jpg)
![Raúl always brought a smile to our faces - 2021](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/MildrenReading-RaulClown.jpg)
![Raúl also loved participating in COAR traditions, like the posada - 2021](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/Posada-GlendaRaul-MaryAndJoseph-scaled.jpg)
His syndrome resulted in elongated bones causing chronic pain and disability especially as he got older. His heart enlarged and became prone to infection. He had open-heart surgery two years ago, but his condition steadily worsened. His poor health meant he continued to live on COAR’s campus as he started at university. That was our gain, again. He was an example to all the children of resilience and perseverance. And he was kind. I started this tribute saying he was “one of our most treasured residents.” I can say that because it was he who treasured everyone else. He was patient and kind with everyone. He was smart and graciously helped those less gifted. He was funny and outgoing, making socializing seem possible to his COAR brothers and sisters who were paralyzed by shame. If he could do it with his obvious physical deformities, then they could risk vulnerability to find friends and support, too.
![Raul and fellow angels](https://coarpeacemission.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/02/DionisioFatimaRaulGlenda-cr-768x551.jpg)